Rick the issue with weight is at what point does the friction become enough that the stepper motors lose counts. That is exactly what it sounds to me like you are describing. I am presuming you have a Buddy32 Standard.
Several things you can do is make more shallow cuts, especially at the beginning when the log is the heaviest. Then as the weight drops make heavier cuts. The cutting forces add to the friction from weight.
Slowing the cut helps, and I will let someone with a standard buddy speak more on the speed/weight issues. That makes smaller chips, so I recommend you try the shallower cut depth.
Also use your sharpest newest bits which will have the lowest cutting forces, that might help also.
That is exactly the situation the alpha systems take care of, they detect that the weight has caused a loss of accuracy and add additional steps to correct the error. That is of no concern if you dont have one.
My buddy 32 is an Alpha, and I haven't ever seen missed steps from weight with any of my powersticks. I have had it fault when something is binding, but it detects the error and shuts down the driver.
You might ask SB tech support what they have experienced as a practical weight limit. There is no set number as it depends on so many factors.
If I had a wish list item for future shopbot development, it would be a %power readout on each axis to let me know how much I could increase the depth of cut without stalling the motion system at the weight of part I am cutting.
Our buddies are more sensitive to this than the gantry systems, as the part weight has to be accelerated back and forth all the time.
Hope that helps
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